theMOMMYnnaise
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Life Lately: my truth about postpartum depression, two years after giving birth
It’s been two years (already???!!!) since I gave birth to Mnemo and I think I’m still in my postpartum depression stage I mean do moms really get through that? In that two years, I’m not entirely sure how many times I felt depressed and anxious because if you’re a mom, you’re basically not allowed (or you don’t allow yourself) to feel nor think that way so I had to shift my mind and heart to something more fun and interesting so yeah. I haven’t (or have I?) posted anything about my life in a while but thanks to “current life events” I was triggered to draft this post and maybe relaunch…
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Happy fathers’ day to single moms?
Here we are again, it’s fathers’ day! In this article, I talked about an unpopular opinion about fathers’ day. If we have different opinions, please let’s have a healthy discussion about it and avoid uncomfortable, unhealthy debate. Happy fathers’ day to all fathers and to single moms! But how do we define “father”, by the way? Maybe we define the word in different ways and that’s okay, as what we do with most words. That’s probably why we have these conflicting opinions about stuff, and while we wish for people to be sensitive about how we feel, why can’t we be more sensitive as well about how other people feel?…
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How I survive my every day as a single working mom
Questions from readers: Though I’m not yet a mom, you really inspire me. You’re one of the toughest persons I know. How do you handle all the responsibilities alone? I am super duper thankful to you, guys, for making me feel stronger and braver surviving this single working mom life. We’re not really close, but thank you for letting me know that 1) you read my blog (haha!) and 2) I inspire people with my stories. Well, I have to admit that it’s really hard to pilot a ship alone. In fact, it makes me feel like I’m almost losing myself. But thanks to my job(s) which I love, my…
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Sofitel’s Sunset Bar + our first birthday duo
In the past year, since I hosted our own baby shower, I busied myself planning for Mnemo’s first birthday party. I researched about how to handle kids during a party, what food and drinks should I order, what is the best venue to do what activities, and looked for ideas on cute but useful give away for the kids. I even had a private Pinterest board on that! Mnemo’s birthday is on April and was during the holy week this year. It is also a day before the patron festival in our province, so I guess we will mostly be celebrating her birthday in Bicol for the coming years. Last…
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Because I am a mom, too.
Happy Mothers’ Day to all of you, moms! I hope you got breakfast in bed this morning had a very relaxing spa day, shopped like crazy, and finally had dinner with your family while everyone was treating you like a queen! Ha! Daydreams! I know this kind of perfect day isn’t gonna happen. I know behind all these celebrations, you still had to stretch your arms and work on the dishes to serve, then washed them after everyone got full. I know behind all these surprises, you quietly cried realizing that you went out because you just didn’t have enough time at home as everyone always leave for work or…